Hubby's Birthday was celebrated yesterday at The Mandarin. LB ate like a little piglet, actually we all did. It was very very good.
Yesterday Hubby and I started to talk about some things we have to do about changing our lives. Mostly I have to be able to put aside some time for Dot, she needs more one on one with Mom. Hubby needs to back away from his computer and start helping out more with LB and other stuff. He agreed, there was no fight about it. We talked about it and he agreed that I was making some good points. He comes home from work and sits at the computer until dinner is ready, he eats and then does some more stuff for himself.
Meanwhile I am the one cooking the dinner, cleaning up after the dinner, feeding LB the dinner, and putting him to bed every night. From the time LB gets home at 4:30 until he goes to bed at 8:00 or 8:30 (depending on how good a night it is) I'm on the go with LB.
I just don't have time to sit with Dot and do the stuff that she needs.
Hubby has agreed that both of us need time to be together. She's never had that, she's always had LB taking up my time. So Hubby has promised to spend less time on the computer and more time with the family.
That being said he has just announced to me that he is now going to be spending a lot of time on the computer for the next week because of his stupid WoW game. He just joined a guild and has made a promise to them to be a certain level by next week. It was a stipulation of him joining.
This does piss me off. It's like our talk never happened yesterday. He's so good at talking the talk but lousy at walking the walk.
I'm so tired of having to fight for every scrap of just about everything. My whole life feels like a fight to me lately. I'm tired and want to sleep.
8:37 a.m. - January 19, 2006
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