I agree it isn't fair that my parents to put me in the middle. And so far my Dad has attempted to keep me out of stuff. He only told me what's going on because he's worried my Mom may show up at my door screaming at me about the stuff going on between them.
He's right to be worried about it, it's happened in the past. So he just wanted to give me a heads up.
My Mom is the one that can't leave me out of it. It's why we stopped talking in the first place, because I said to her that I love both my parents and do not want to take sides. What she heard was I love my father and take his side.
And that's why she wants to cut me out of her will, something that violates the seperation agreement between her and my father.
I guess I need to give some more info...
When my Dad left he took nothing, he gave her the entire house and anything that had belonged to him (handed down from his own parents when they passed away) he left behind on the grounds that when my Mom passed away everything is evenly distributed between the 3 kids.
Since I am being cut out of the will, I will not be able to get anything that once belonged to my Dad's side of the family.
This pisses my Dad off. I don't care, but he wants some of his parents stuff to be passed on to me and my kids.
If my Mom doesn't send a notorized letter stating that I'm still in the will he will demand that the stuff that is be handed over to him, as well as half of all marital assests.
He has a lot of leverage over my mother right now and it's going to piss her off.
So he warned me that I might feel some of the backlash.
In the past 4 years my father has tried to keep me out of all the crap that's been going on between my parents. I didn't even know that their seperation agreement forced my Mom to leave everything to us three kids until he mentioned it. My Mom told me that it made it so that if either of my parents remarried they would need a pre-nup that stated that neither of their future spouses or children from those marriages would have a claim on anything came from their previous marriage as all of those assets and property would be the inheritance of myself and my brothers alone.
2:30 p.m. - January 05, 2006
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